Do you think you can stay safe in your comfort zone? Till when?
The answer is "No" .. It won't last forever .. Trust me and don't deceive yourself .. please ..
[Don't think that you can avoid "change". "Change" happens and will happen whether you like it or not.]
The game is to MAKE "change" by yourself and not to wait and react when it hits you. The game is to move towards it instead of running or walking away from it. Some people might think that "change" is linked to risk, while reality says that staying still in your place (your comfort zone) without making "change" is the real risk.
Avoid risk by deciding to change. It feels good. You will enjoy it because you will surely feel ALIVE.
It only takes a simple decision and a professional life coach.
You are two steps close to it.
So "just do it"
You have one of two choices and it's up to you:
1) stay in your comfort zone, try to avoid change, talk excuses and enjoy some secondary gain whether consciously or not (we'll talk about secondary gains in a later post, or you can search it:).
Results:
Waste of time (years) and all your precious resources
Frequent depression and negative state
Postponing your success
Sacrificing excellence
Etc.
And then, guess what, change will happen !!!
But in this case, it will be;
- Sudden
- Dramatic/ Drastic
- Obligatory
- Comprises some major sacrifices
2) decide to avoid risk by getting out of your comfort zone, detect early signals for change, before reaching the edge where you don't have choices.
Results:
Opposite to the above mentioned results, and you can easily add more.
Change will be:
- Gradual
- Modest
- Chosen
- Might comprise some minor sacrifices (might not)
So, you have the choice, and honestly it's up to you.
I will repeat my message again ...
Avoid risk by deciding to change. It feels good. You will enjoy it because you will surely feel ALIVE.
It only takes a simple decision and a professional life coach.
You are two steps closer
So "just do it"
I can help - if you wish (sorry .. if you decide)
Nayef Moukhtar
Cairo
24-04-2012
